Posted by
GregB on Friday, August 14, 2009 12:50:24 AM
My wife, the lovely and gracious Kathy, is the executive director of a non-profit faith based womesn shelter. Its name is Stepping Stones for Women. (At this very moment she is meeting with a property procurement committee because she and the board perceive that they need to secure ownership of their own facility instead of renting their facility). SSFW encounters women from all sectors and ethnic groups who are struggling with the demands of single motherhood. For many of these women, they are victims of a social structure but not victims as we might think. These women are not much different then some of the people that I meet. In short, both the clients of SSFW and in some part, people that I come into contact with are victims of a poor ethical system.They have not been taught a moral system that is foundational to making good life decisions. They have no concept of what a Christian value system looks like. Having a child without benefit of marriage does not carry any stigma.
Into this arena, the church has failed to travel. When asking churches to support this type of mission, there is little interest shown because this is not a mission project that is across the ocean. Additionally, when we ask church goers to provide support, we end up getting gifts of broken cribs, dilapidated furniture, dirty cloths and other garbage.
While we Christians decry the existence of abortion, when a ministry such as SSFW exists to offer support to women who have chosen life instead of abortion is not supported by the church as a viable alternative, I think that the church has failed to enter the marketplace and show how Christianity can offer practical help and wage war against this scourage of abortion. Ioffer this as an example of the fact that the church needs to do more than complaining about the conditions of society. If it wants to combat poverty, homelessness, unwanted pregnancies, etc, then it needs to get off the bench and offer support and prograams that are tangible examples of how to solve these problems and evangelize those who need new life.